Love is in the Air!

Psychic Readings by Kathleen

In the Spring our bodies become responsive to the fragrance of fertile soil calling for seed; our skin vibrates fresh with life and warmth under the brightening sun, and the cacophony of mating throughout the animal and plant kingdoms awakens us in the growing dawn and lullabies us to sleep at night.  Easter eggs are our enduring tribute to this dizzying yearning. Sustaining our reasoning brain in the driver’s seat of our relationship path takes a feat of self-will which in the Tarot cards is symbolized by the Strength card.  Acknowledge and revel in the sensations but don’t let it put your common sense into a coma.  Our instrument of logic is another divine gift after all.  One equally vital in our meandering journey to enlightenment.

Many clients who seek my advice say that I must love my work.  I do.  But that doesn’t mean it’s easy or simple.  It’s texturally complex.  People consult me because they believe I am able to see the future and psychically attuned to elements to such as, what others in their life are feeling, thinking and planning.  Clients put a fair degree of faith in what I am forecasting until I say something out of sync with their desires.  Typically some insight is good, and some not so good.  Life inevitably unfolds with its lion’s share of frustrations, disappointments, changes, losses, and regrets.  Some clients have the fortitude to accept those bits of challenging insight better than others.

Some clients call me after consulting several other psychic advisers on the same issue demanding to know why I am forecasting something completely different from what others have predicted.  One woman recently boldly announced she had just hung up from chatting with another adviser who had assured her that her marriage would be reborn if she applied a few simple magic meditation rituals.  She called me for a second, affirming opinion.  I told her that an eternity of magic tricks would not bring her ideals of marriage to the fore with the man she was presently married to. Throughout the course of our conversation it emerged that indeed her husband had confessed to several affairs, that he’d baldly announced that he never truly loved her, and in fact that he found her altogether repulsive.  Albeit heartbroken, she had chosen not to take this pronouncement as the truth.  Tragically I know that she continued to call another bevy of advisers in pursuit of what she wanted to hear.

I can relate too many such stories.  Like a mantra I tell women and men that romantic love is quite simple.  When someone is crazy about you, you actually do know that.  They tend to behave rather predictably.  For example, you are among the top three concerns on their priority list.  Your joy, good health, and creature comforts are paramount to their peace of mind.  They contact you regularly to find out how you are.  Like you do with them.  When someone is using you for their own purposes, you know that too.  Every aspect of your relationship is dependent on your bowing to their will and desires.  As soon as you ask for a little more sugar they are scrambling out the door with barely a backward glance.  That’s isn’t love.  It isn’t even lust.

There are times however when we find ourselves in love with someone who is mentally unbalanced which is going to require soul healing to get everything sorted - such as who loves who.   This certainly does introduce a complicating element to the dance of love!

I have knowledge of mental disorders.  For years I taught others how to assess, and heal them. Mental illness can thwart the best laid relationship plans! You must be cautious not to be drawn into the construct of the dis-ease itself: Playing a game by which the rules are set by the mental disorder. This is a relationship destined to failure.  For example, playing Wendy to your man Peter Pan (the boy who would never grow up) is on a crash course because we as living, growing beings have a natural inborn imperative to grow too.  At some point your relationship with Peter Pan will push at the boundaries of the Land of Forever Children and nudge it to the edge of grow or die.

Like Sleeping Beauty, Peter Pan is jolted by an emotional shock (such as a parent dying) which awakens him from the dream he’s playing at living. In a moment he dashes off and marries someone else who represents the real world to him.  Like a perfect puzzle fit, the soon-to-be-bride nestles within the strict conformist parameters set by his family of origin, religion and class.  She represents living in the real world to him.  The world of reality, grown ups, and social acceptance.  You discover you were the playing Wendy part to his Peter Pan fantasy that was terrifically great fun but hardly one he would actually live with in the real world.  He may very well suggest that you stick around on the sidelines for when he wants to play at being Peter Pan occasionally.  How many women and men have been gobsmacked when casually their lover announces they are marrying another?!  When I suggest to a client that this is where the relationship is heading my job enters the realm of textually complex.

All of these same relationship tribulations plague men too!  Many male clients tell me tragic love stories.  Tearfully grief stricken, and hopelessly in love with a woman who regards him as a sensitive friend, a great shoulder to cry on and an occasional sex partner when the pickings are slim but seriously?  No way.  He’s just not the one for her.  What would people say? Women and men may construe their soul mate under differing criteria but the outcome pain and suffering is the same.

I especially caution people at this time of year about the online dating opportunities which flourish like crab grass in the spring. Not that it doesn’t have it’s extraordinary success stories but statistically they would seem to be on par with winning a jackpot.  How many have to play before someone wins? If you are gearing up for an online meet and they press you for more photos of yourself please consider what this is really all about.  I’d be strongly tempted to send him my worst pics because at some point in our budding love he’ll certainly have to confront that eventuality. Most likely however I would opt to send him none having a particularly strong predilection for risk-takers myself.

I wish you all the joys and excitements of April…just remember to keep it all in perspective.  Your heart and soul knows true love.  It’s open, consistent habits of communication, willing self-sacrifice, endurance, honour, virtue, loyalty, devotion and pining.  It’s all rather old-fashioned and time consuming.

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Quote:

“He saw the inside of a cottage, and an elderly couple sitting before their fireplace.  The wife stood up and approached the man from behind his rocking chair and began to brush his hair.  Then she began to sing to him.  It was only a simple lullaby, but he smiled and closed his eyes.  Their contentment seemed complete.  These lovers have achieved the second rung of the ladder of learning.  They have tasted passionate love, but beyond this, they have discovered how to live together with integrity.  This has taken them much time.  They are old now.  They are patient, kindly, peaceful, and full of affection for each other.  They are loyal, unselfish, and forgiving.  They will be together until they pass on to the next life.  Some learn these things quickly, and some take more time.  A whole life is not too much to attain the second rung in the ladder of love.

Fool: It is very beautiful.  This must be a life full of satisfaction.

Magician: It is yours if you wish.  The valley of love welcomes all who would wish to spend their days in this way.  If you truly want a life of love like this, then you will be able to have this experience.  You have come to the right place.  There is much maturity and integrity required to live loyally in a committed relationship.  These are good people.”

Ancient Mysteries Tarot:  Keys to Divination and Initiation by Roger Calverley 2004

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