Happy Valentine’s Day!

7. February 2012 by admin.

Psychic Readings by Kathleen

The day for romance is upon us!  How exhilarating romance is when it’s going swimmingly and how tortuous it is when it is in decline.  The best and worst aspect of the whole journey is that it all can be so unexpected. You would seem to be thinking and feeling just alike on all matters that are important, your sex life is so good it makes you sing your heart out in the shower every morning, you are chatting all day, and you’re growing more confident that commitment is on both your minds.

And one nothing-out-of-the-ordinary day you send them a text as usual to make plans… and they don’t respond.  Their cell must be having technical problems (and heaven knows that happens often enough!) so you wait and still no response.  Actually you don’t hear from them all day so you contact them again a few hours later and still no response.  When you finally do hear back from them they are acting like nothing out of the ordinary has happened.  No cell phone problems, yes they did receive your message, what’s up? You feel hurt, confused, and scared.  Your relationship has gone wonky on you and you have no clue how it happened. Conversely, it can happen the other way around.  You’re out with your lover one evening and inexplicably you look across the divide between you and it seems to have oddly shifted out of focus.  The thrill has simply vanished along with your patience, desire, curiosity, and good humour.  You chock it up to moodiness over work or extended family.  It couldn’t possibly be about this sexy, exciting, thrilling person you’ve been obsessing about for the past several months or years?!

But sadly even the thought of kissing and throwing your arms around them is rather uninteresting, maybe even repellent.  You start praying fervently this is a temporary illness.  But that magic doesn’t return and you realize you are in a pot of hot water. All your loved ones are celebrating this amazing new someone in your life which may even set off those wedding bells in the near future.  They even adore your lover! How to tell them this new hire at work is now making your heart sing?  How could you be so fickle and ditzy?  How do you slip away surreptitiously from this ho hum, mildly irritating dud who is so sappy about you?  Good luck with that.

The next time you do see each other, you want to ask them what the heck has happened.  But you are afraid.  You’re afraid you’re going to hear something you aren’t going to like or have to say something you really don’t want to say (with good reason) so you let it pass.  But you know in your heart things just aren’t the same.  They don’t look at you with that same burning desire, they don’t seek every opportunity to touch you, in fact they seem to find anything or anyone else in the room more intriguing.  The connection has inexplicably dissolved. This can happen after seeing someone for a month or with someone you’ve been married to for years.  One of the partners has simply yet absolutely lost interest in the other.   The self questioning keeps you up half the night.  Did you imagine all this mutual passion and appreciation? Was it only one sided all along?  Was something said or done that has turned it off?  Can it be turned back on again?

The wonder of love is that it can happen the opposite way too.  You like someone, and they like you too.  One day you are out together on a casual date and they crack a joke that makes you laugh so hard you can’t catch your breath.  And with mind-blowing clarity you really see this wonder of a human being.  Your heart is thumping like a freight train and like magic you realize you adore this person and they have been ever so patiently waiting for you to notice that you are just perfect for each other.  In amazement you are lifted to a peak of ecstasy that makes you want to fly around the stratosphere shouting and somersaulting.

Most clients who come to me with lover queries are abashed.  They say with embarrassed smiles, “You probably hear this question all the time…but what is going on with my love life?!”  Don’t be surprised or ashamed to be stressed out about your love life!  It’s normal.  When our love life is going well, there is nothing in the world that can dash our joy, but when it isn’t, every little tiny irritant turns us into raving savages. When a friend or family member is broken hearted over love, be charitable and be prepared to be very patient! Too many of my clients come to me emotionally shattered with no one they can talk to about their hopelessness and despair.  They’ve been granted one or two discussions by their family and friends over love’s fickle ways and that’s it.  The problem is that that is not it.  The damage to our self esteem and faith in ourselves has been wounded.  The longing to be with that person is overwhelming their ability to do what they know needs to be done.  Let go and move on. Too often we tell our friends and family, “Just get over him/her and move on with your life! Forget about them!  They are jerks to treat you like that!” They already know all of that but that crazy, no-good heart of theirs just keeps on pining. And in weak moments it wins the day and before we know it our little fingers are busy at that keyboard…

If our hearts would only listen to our logical mind we’d be so much more content.  But the heart rules and when our heart sings with expansiveness and poetry, the world glows with beneficence and beauty.  No amount of logic in the world is going to offer you that feeling which is the reason why we continue to fall into the quagmire time and time again despite all our exhortations to the contrary!  Now about that new hire at work…

I wish all of you a magical and joyous Valentine’s Day.

Blessings Kathleen

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Quote:
“The Lovers card isn’t only about the highest spiritual kind of love.  It is a down-and-dirty card about passionate sex. There are times (after a long day of sitting across the table from people) when I truly believe that absolutely no one in the world has sex anymore.  Let me amend this:  Lots of people are having sex or wanting to have sex, just not with their spouse.  However, since only I have this devastating overview, I can’t just plunk it on the table and expect my client to believe it.  We have to get into it sideways, with the client foofing and fussing about what a wonderful provider and best friend her husband is, then in sotto voice sharing, “We never have sex anymore.”  At this point I am supposed to show great shock, but as I already know what is coming I am mentally filing my nails.”

Confessions of a Tarot Reader by Jane Stern 2011

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